What to Say to Someone Whose Family Member Is Sick

Comforting words: What to say to someone who has a sick family member.

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Are you looking for what to say to someone who has a sick family member? Do you need words of encouragement for a friend who is dealing with a sick parent? Want to write comforting words for a colleague or friend who has a sick family member and don’t know how best to go about doing it? If you answered yes to any of the above questions, then this article get you covered. Keep in mind that things you say to them should offer emotional support and let them know that they are not alone.

Thoughtful things to comfort someone who has a sick family member:

• Be empathetic. Recognizes what the person might be feeling and let it guide the wordings and tone of your message.

• Be positive. Send encouraging and comforting words that will give them hope, lift their spirit, or help them remember that it is not something that is going to last forever.

• The words you use should strike your strong connection with their family, especially if you’re very close to them.

• Help them stay strong and focused, especially if you notice they are emotionally or mentally unstable.

• Let them know that they are not left to deal with it alone.

• Encourage them to stay optimistic and never lose confidence.

• Let them know that they are loved.

• Reach out to them and offer support to strengthen them.

• If the person is religious, you can send them prayers, something like, “Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family during these tough times. I pray God gives [him/her] the strength to bounce back stronger than before.” You can also pair it with Qur’an or Bible verses to strengthen their faith, give them hope, and help them stop worrying. Something like this Qur’an verse, “No calamity befalls but by the permission of Allah, and whosoever believes in Allah, He will guide his heart. And Allah is the All-knower of everything.” —Surat At- Taghabun 64:11 or Bible verse, “I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.” —John 14:27 will be appropriate.

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  Comforting Words to Someone Who Is Dealing With a Sick Family Member

  So if you have a friend, co-worker, or loved one who is dealing with a sick family member—and you cannot visit them in person, writing a letter, sending a text (SMS) or an email would be a nice way to connect with them and show your empathy. This collection of messages will help inspire you to write comforting and encouraging words:

  1. I’m sorry to hear about the difficulties you are dealing with right now. I know that everything will be alright again in no time. Don’t worry so much about it. She/he is now in the safe hands of an excellent medical team.

  2. I just heard your [sister/brother] developed some complications and was moved into NHS intensive care unit last night. I’m so sorry [she/he] has to go through all this. If there is something I can do to help you while [she/he] is recovering, remember that I’m just one call away.
  
  
  3. In these times of grief and suffering, we stand with you. If you need anything, we would be glad to help. Stay strong!
  
  
  4. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Remember that we are in this together. Everything will be alright again in no time.
  
  
  5. What your family is going through right now is something that is not going to last forever. She/he’ll get back on her/his feet soon. We love you!
  
  
  6. We are deeply concern about your condition during these nerve-racking and difficult times. This is the time she/he will need you more than ever. Please, stay strong. If you need anything, we are here for you.
  
  
  7. I know that moving up and down—jumping from place to place just to save a loved one’s life can be very disgusting. I care so much about you and the rest of your family. Everything will return back to normal in no time. We are in this together and we are here for you.
  
  
  8. I wanted to let you know that you’re not alone during this tough time. I’m praying for your [brother/sister/mom/dad/son/daughter/uncle/sister] to feel better again in no time. May you have the strength and courage to deal with this! If you need anything, I'd be glad to help you out.
  
  
  9. I know how traumatized one would be seeing or having someone we love dearly rushed to hospital with severe symptoms of coronavirus. We are in this together, let’s be hopeful that they will surely get over this.
  
  
  10. Don’t lose sleep over what they are going through right now. Never get depressed. We are struggling together all through this incredibly difficult time. They’ll definitely win the battle against coronavirus symptoms.
  
  
  11. Stay positive! Things are going to be better soon. And remember that we are here to offer support in this time of trauma.
   
  
  12. Sitting down alone and thinking about how it has affected you negatively won’t do you any good, but can cause more distress. If you need anything, I’m here for you.
  
  
  13. I’m sorry to hear about your family mishap. I want to remind you that what they’re going through at the moment is not something that is going to last forever. I hope they get well soon!
  
  
  14. I’m so sorry to hear this. I saw [her/him] two days ago and [she/he] was energetic and filled with high spirits. You need to pull yourself together right now and stay strong. Remember, after darkness comes light. I hope she/he gets better soon!
  
  
  15. What your family is experiencing right now is only for a short period of time. Stay optimistic and strong—remember that they need you more than ever at this critical time.
  
  
  16. Do you believe that there is nothing in this world without a way out? The way out depends much on how well you can handle this present condition. Remain steadfast and everything will get better again in no time.
  
  
  17. Though it is not easy to accept a negative situation when it comes, we need to accept the fact that it is just temporary. He/she’ll be back to his/her feet in no time.
  
  
  18. I was heartbroken when I heard [insert name] was diagnosed with this deadly disease. Let me reassure you today that in the midst of this pandemic, I see hope and new life. I’m here to help you out in any way you may think of. Stay strong and [he/she] will get well soon.
  
  
  19. Going through all this is giving us some concerns as well. Our hearts are with you and the rest of your family.
  
  
  20. I’m so sorry [she/he] has to go through all this. [She/he] is a very good friend of mine, and I know you know that too. We must stand with each other, journeying and struggling together to help [her/him] get over this. I hope to see [her/him] back on [her/his] feet soon.
  
  
  21. I want to remind you that there is no one in the world without his or her own ups and downs in life to navigate. We’re here for you!
  
  
  22. We want you to know how much we care about you. At this time, concentrate more on positive thoughts.  We’re here to help you out.
  
  
  23. Don’t get overwhelmed by what you and your family are going through at the moment, but have hope that things will be better soon. Know that we are here to help you.
  
  
  24. Don’t allow what you and your family are going through to knock you down. Look ahead with hope and excitement!